Please remember that parental participation is necessary for a successful program to effectively get your child dry at any age. If they could do it on their own you would not be seeking out help. Remember while not all children wet the bed about 2O% do suffer from this problem. The problem of wetting the bed is in the incorrect sleep pattern as shown in the sleep pattern page.
Our proven method works, but it is not something magical that will work in 2-3 weeks. That does not exist. Anyone that promises a dry bed in that time frame is simply trying to sell you his or her product. Noticeable positive results can be obtained in 3 weeks however they will not stop wetting.
We do use a bedwetting alarm. This is important for we want to catch them if possible at the beginning of the wetting. This alarm is also used, not as the tool to get them dry, but as a necessary tool to alert the parents that a wetting has occurred. (A parent needs to respond. Research has shown that the bed wetter can sleep through very loud alarms).
When you put them to bed there are certain things that we have you tell them that will prepare them for what is going to happen tonight in their sleep. When they wake up in the morning to begin a new day we have certain things you tell them to get their day started.
When the alarm goes off at night you respond to your sound asleep child to wake them up, we have an easy method to awaken them that works. (We do not recommend shaking. If they are having a bad dream the shaking can scare them.)
When they wet, we will want you to record the activity for future reference on the forms that we supply you.
After the program continues and they are dry for 30 nights, the alarm is taken away and final instructions begin for 30 nights. This is simple reinforcement about what has been happening for the last period of time and firms up what has been done. It additionally should break any physiological or psychological dependence that could have been developed or placed upon the alarm. These final instructions are very important to prevent recurrence and relapse.
We send everything to you to get your bed wetter a dry bed except the alarm. Our instructions are easy to read and understand (1f you have understood our web site you will understand our instructions.)
We supply you with a help number to call if it is necessary for assistance.
The instructions that we send work most of the time. In some cases there are special circumstances that need to be addressed to get them dry. We will help with this. That is where some companies talk about “tailoring a program for your specific needs” and will charge you hundreds and even thousands for it. The problem is in the incorrect sleep pattern and that is what we are working with to get your bed wetter a dry bed.